There is a world full of abundant possibilities out there. There are tons of beautiful women from different races and various walks of life, waiting for a strong, capable man to whisk her away.
If you’ve ever felt frustrated with the dating options immediately available to you, believe me, I know how you feel. Sometimes, it just gets to the point where every girl you meet up with seems to be almost completely identical in mannerisms, values, hobbies, and their general way of being.
If you feel like it’s time for a breath of fresh air, why not try dating outside of your culture?
Here’s the thing: if you’re reading this, you’re most likely living in a western country, and you speak fluent English. That already, in and of itself, is considered quite desirable by women all around the globe… but you wouldn’t know it until you left the comforts of home (your country). It’s funny – a large number of people who have grown up in nations like Canada and the United States, have never ventured that far out at all. I know people who consider a trip to Mexico to be ‘going off the beaten path’… even though they tend to visit the same typical tourist destinations where everyone speaks English.
Compare that with yours truly. I lived in Asia for more than 4 years, and I visited tons of other countries at the time.
This isn’t me bragging about how worldly and experienced I am, but rather just showing you that it’s more possible than ever now to hop on a plane and go anywhere you want, rather than being left to freeze in a snowed-over small town in the middle of nowhere in eastern Canada.
Getting back to my main point…
I’m writing this article to highlight the top 5 reasons you should consider dating or going out with women who don’t speak English. That can mean women from China, Russia, Mexico, you name it.
Now, if you have no knowledge of a foreign language at the moment, that’s fine. You can look here at the different types of women you can meet throughout the world and judge for yourself which ones you like the most, and whether or not you’d be willing to at least learn a few words in their language in order to get the ball rolling.
- You can learn her language quickly, in a fun way, almost for free.
I couldn’t resist mentioning that, rather than taking expensive language classes, or paying a tutor to sit down with you and teach you complex grammar and other irrelevant information, you can make the process of learning a new language sooo much more enjoyable.
Now, everyone has their own style of learning. However, think about this… how did you learn you native language? You were around people who spoke it all the time. Namely, your mom. Hence why we call it ‘the mother tongue’ – in your infancy, you probably spend more time with your mom than anyone else. It goes without saying that, by having your mom talk to you and constantly expose you to the language, you will naturally pick it up and learn how to communicate with her, and, following that, other people.
Based on this line of thinking, having another woman in your life who speaks to you constantly in another language, will produce identical results, although the learning process might be slower, since you no longer have the astounding neuroplasticity of an infant!
And let’s be real… everyone loves talking dirty, especially when it’s in another language!
- You Get a New Cultural Experience
It’s one thing to visit a foreign country, and try to discover new foods and items and stuff by yourself… but what if you had your own personal tour guide showing you aspects of the new culture that you would otherwise not have access to?
Noone knows their way around a place like a local. You can try reading up and watching videos on the net, but at the end of the day, wouldn’t you rather spend your time enjoying and breathing in your new experiences? I know I would. When you’ve got a local girl by your side, she’ll be eager to introduce you to new dishes, desserts, music, locations, activity groups, and even other locals to befriend or make business connections with.
- You’ll Stand Out
As you can imagine, if you as a man are interested in foreign women… there are also foreign women out there interested in meeting a foreign man! Now, of course, there are women who would prefer to stick to local guys, and that’s fine, but sometimes, if the right guy happens to come along and sweep her off her feet, she might just be inclined to try something new for once.
Now, if you really want to make a statement, by becoming fluent, or at least conversational in a foreign language, you not only stand out from the multitude of local men who are trying to find a girl, but you also distinguish yourself from other foreign guys who have little to no command of her language. Not mention that being able to speak and understand another language is an undeniable sign of intelligence, discipline, and willingness to step outside your comfort zone and try new things.
- You can teach her a thing or two
If she doesn’t speak English, you have the honor of starting her along on that path. I know that when I was in this position, not only were the girls excited to learn English from a native speaker, but they looked upon me with even more respect and appreciation. I know I mentioned in point 2 that you yourself can learn her language by spending time with her, but that totally doesn’t mean that you can’t reciprocate and try to help her as well.
- The less English She knows, the less western degeneracy she’s probably exposed to
This is a contentious point, so allow me to elaborate.
Most women born and raised in the west are losing or have already completely lost touch with what it means to be feminine and support their men and highly value their role in a relationship as not only a wife or girlfriend, but also a mother and caretaker.
What I’ve found, is that a lot of girls who lived abroad and learned English, then returned to their home country, or, just learned English to a conversational level, tended to exhibit more negative traits of women that you see in the west, like:
- Trying to ‘compete’ with you
- Cursing… a lot
- Drinking, smoking, and using drugs
- Being loud and obnoxious
- Refusing to do simple tasks like wash dishes or serve you food, or, god forbid, ask about how your day was
- Dressing too casually (yoga pants, flip flops, hoodie, no makeup)
…and the list goes on.
On the contrary, girls who have remained in their country and have had a limited amount of exposure to a lot of the degenerate media promoted in places like America, the more pleasant and agreeable she’ll be.
What does that look like?
- She enjoys cooking for you
- She brings you surprise gifts
- She agrees to your terms regarding a date
- She is happy to let you take the lead
- She compliments you
- She looks forward to starting a family
Sounds like a great deal to me.
At the end of the day, it’s up to you what kind of girl you want to date. However, if you’re like me, and you’re curious to see what lies beyond, then give foreign girls a shot. It may be awkward at times, but you might just discover that there really are some amazing women out there who still ‘get it’ and are looking for the same male-female dynamic that you are.